Have you ever seen those people who just stay with someone because they are 'comfortable'? I mean, they probably do love that person, but not in the romantic sense. More of a love for a friend. I have been there. I had to get myself out of it because it was never going to go in the direction I wanted it. It took alot for me to leave, you still care about the person.
I am dealing with this right now, with someone I care so much about. Shes in an 8 year relationship. She even moved to another state to be with him! She compromised her health. Left her family to live in a state where she knew no one. She has told me many of times how she knows what the right decision is, but there is never any follow through. I really thought that when he told her for the third time that its not right and they need to take separate directions she would actually leave. But she didnt. Its heart wrenching because she can find someone who will love her more, care about her more and treat her like a queen.
They fight, they bicker. It starts as picking on each other like an 8 year old would pick on their crush. But neither can take the sarcasm anymore and it turns into a huge argument!
I wish I knew what else to tell her, but she has to make her own choices. Just as I did 3 years ago.
I hope that either a: they get over themselves and learn to love again, or b: one of them really ommits to ending this battle.
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This makes me sad when I read it, but also proud to have gotten out of this situation before in my own life. It's truly a difficult decision, but it opens your world back up to better things. Here's to love!
I only wish this person would get out of this situation because I know she can find someone who will love her more than she is now. And wont bicker with them every waking moment in their life.
I am also glad to have gotten out of the relationship I was in. Its a tough call to make, but in this game called life you need to make the moves that will improve your position.
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